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ok well here goes.......ok im not gonna lie but this is a really common problem...but it took me awhile 2 work up the courage and put this on here .....and normaly im the 1 giving advice so this is weird 4 me so please bare with me please

ok,so i have had these insecurity problems 4 years now and i have been doing everything i can to try and fix them but nothing works  and this year it is getting alot worse then it ever has been ok u c everyone in my grade now dates all of my friends r dating except me i have never had any dating exeperince ever! and my insecurity problems got worse this year because...

there r alot of new girls at my school and they r like insanely pretty they all have gorgeous shimmery hair and they r all really skinny and they have beautiful faces and skin and they r just down right attractive (im not gay) and all of those girl's r my friends so im around them everyday and i feel really intimated around them all the time and left out because they all have boyfriends and there all so pretty and im just....

ugly and sometimes i wanna cry about it and im trying everything i can 4 all these years to be pretty but nothing every works and ive been through alot so that didn't help either im the ugliest girl in my grade and it really hurts me 2 have 2 be around that every day of my life i cant even remember the last time i have ever felt comftorable wearing shorts :(

and i have alot of guy friends 2 and they r all romantic with there girlfriends and when they r sometimes i just wanna go crawl into a hole and cry and i try 2 ignore it but i cant everywhere i go i see couples or all i hear r my friends talk about boys .........i just don't no what 2 do....:(........
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:iconfearfighter2:
If you feel that way their not your friends....
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:iconthereverendofdrugs:
~TheReverendofDrugs Dec 3, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
Hey, looks don't matter. I don't know how old you are, but it sounds like all of them are really ignorant. I can totally relate to this. Focus on your education and get a good one, so that you can actually support a family rather than throwing yourself around like they are ...

Looks don't matter. I know those words have been abused, but take it from the guy with no sense of style at all. I mean, I wear a jester hat everywhere. But people still take a kind of liking to me, perhaps because I appear confident. It's truly a personality thing, that's what they'll love you for :)
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:icondark-vampire111:
Oh, I understand. I'm also like that. There are times it is tempting to move away or something, right. I'm sorry you are having trouble! I bet you are not really ugly though! Besides, there are different versions of beauty and not all guys even like that type of girl. You just have to meet the right guy for you who will love you for you. Don't ever try to change yourself for a dumb guy (no offense boys). It will happen, you just have to wait for it. Dating is more a pain than it is worth anyway. It is nice to be free so enjoy it while you have it!
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!alternativesecret Dec 2, 2011  Student Writer
your post gave me this mental image of a bunch of barbie twilight vampires and then a short little dwarf. But I highly doubt you are a dwarf or that you have barbie-sized twilight vampires at your school who sit on pink pianos floating in swimming pools singing "fabulous"

umm I'm not sure where that came from...

anyway what I originally was going to say was that I think you're overestimating the difference in appearance between you and them. Also it isn't even the appearance that counts. and I dislike boys so I don't think having boyfriends is cool at all.

I hope that helped or at least made you laugh or something :/ :huggle:
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*ShayHart Dec 2, 2011  Hobbyist Writer
i know the feeling....in highschool we have to do swimming and all the girls in my PE class are either on the volley ball team or on the cheer team and they are all insanely skinny and pretty. People tell me im really pretty but i just don't see it. These people are my friends too so i am with them a lot and its really hard.

But don't worry. I think everyone is beautiful. My friends are actually impressed that i don't see peoples appearances but i see their inner beauty :) but yes it is hard.

I hope you feel better
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