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so i'm still trying to figure out what i am, gender wise. I know I'm not cisgender (being okay with the gender I was born with.) because I honestly loathe the whole situation going on down there but sometimes (very rarely) i do like things that are considered "girly" & I'm pretty sure I'm not gender fluid, because I prefer boy stuff over anything & everything. (clothing, pronouns - he,him, his - etc.) but I just really don't know what I am. I'm considered a "late bloomer" when it comes to experimenting with sexuality & gender stuff since I'm just starting these things when I'm 17 almost 18... god i feel like I'm rambling, but I shouldn't. ANYWAYS. Could someone please give me advice on what I can do about these things? I would talk to my therapist about it, or another trusted adult, but I don't know what to do, honestly...
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Need advice about bisexuality
Hi.
In my entire life, I've always been attracted to guys (male).
And in my entire life, people have always told me that they think I am bisexual. I always replied "no", but they told me this so many fucking times that now I'm wondering if I'm really bi.
When I walk and see a cute guy I'm like "Oh, he's so cute!" and yes, if I see a cute girl I think "she's cute" but it ends here. There's no real attraction with girls.
So, I know it's kinda stupid asking something like this but-- HOW do you know if you're bisexual? Is there a way to know?
My friends are driving my nuts with this bisexual's stuff and I'm really confused.
Btw, this is NOT a
I guess I need help
I'm...getting progressively more suicidal and depressed and anxious. I was better for awhile, and then my roommate moved his girlfriend in. She constantly puts me down, hits my cat. Tells me I'm immature and she's significantly more mature than me. (She's five years younger than me, in fact, shes barely 18.) She pushes me to cut, she tells me I'm a bad person. All I ever even try to do in life is make everyone else happy.
I sacrifice plenty for everyone else, and rarely complain except for when someone screws me over. At least not in front of her. I complain to my best friend when he doesn't do the dishes (he's my other roommate, there are fo
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In my personal opinion, I would wait until you turn 18 before mentioning this to a therapist. I know a lot of people may disagree with me on this, but from my personal experience/in my opinion, if your therapist doesn't support LGBTQ ideals, they can tell your parents, which really can complicate things. However, how YOU feel, is the most important thing here. YOU know your therapist (obviously I don't), so it is your full choice. You should consider asking your therapist about what their professional stance is on gender issues, or consider seeing a therapist who specializes in the gender spectrum. As for what you mentioned about the situation "down there", you could have some gender dysphoria going on; which really does help to talk to someone about, because it can be really rough to deal with (and super stressful).
Look into reading some articles etc and people's blogs that associate with their gender. Sexuality and gender in general are fluid, and ANY person no matter what their sex/gender is can have more masculine or feminine traits. A man can be feminine, a woman can be masculine. Since you mention how your prefer male pronouns, maybe look into transgenderism. Like someone else mentioned, experiment. Try presenting as male sometimes, or look into things like wearing binders etc. If you decide it's more comfortable, keep up with it. If it doesn't feel right, go back to what does. You don't need to stress and fit some type of label immediately and see it as set in stone; just do what feels good to YOU.
Youtube can be really resourceful, these two bloggers might be worth watching (and they're really funny). Also, if you need anyone to talk to online about this type of stuff, feel free to message me. Hope it helps, and good luck with everything!
www.youtube.com/user/BentonSor…
www.youtube.com/user/TheRealJa…
Look into reading some articles etc and people's blogs that associate with their gender. Sexuality and gender in general are fluid, and ANY person no matter what their sex/gender is can have more masculine or feminine traits. A man can be feminine, a woman can be masculine. Since you mention how your prefer male pronouns, maybe look into transgenderism. Like someone else mentioned, experiment. Try presenting as male sometimes, or look into things like wearing binders etc. If you decide it's more comfortable, keep up with it. If it doesn't feel right, go back to what does. You don't need to stress and fit some type of label immediately and see it as set in stone; just do what feels good to YOU.
Youtube can be really resourceful, these two bloggers might be worth watching (and they're really funny). Also, if you need anyone to talk to online about this type of stuff, feel free to message me. Hope it helps, and good luck with everything!
www.youtube.com/user/BentonSor…
www.youtube.com/user/TheRealJa…