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And let the hating commence!!!!!
Knowing there is a difference between venting and just being a selfish prick who will keep telling people that they WILL do the destructive behavior JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN, (and that I am convinced they don't really give a crap about the people who care about them), if you lack the intellectual fortitude to understand who the audience is that is being addressed, assume you are the audience and feel free to donate to the "I Don't Give A Fuck Foundation" who's goal it is to get DubhEitilt kicked out of #imreallynotokay

Hmm, ever since I certain individual's post, I am beginning to notice a pattern.  A pattern I used when I was young.  And though I haven't done it entirely ( I still have some growing to do), I still GREW THE FUCK OUT OF IT!
Oh my (insert deity name that you worship)!  These people are so selfish, whiney, impotent!  How the hell are they to live in the real world where the majority won't give a fuck about you when you die and some of them would even gleefully dance on your sorry ass graves.

And here I am stooping to your level to try to wake you from your fucking stupor!

I'd argue that AT LEAST 60% of you who put up this hogwash of cutting and killing yourself are intelligent, have a shred of a heartstring to realize your actions, have some creativity and ingenuity to possibly make the world a nicer place to live (if only by one ounce of talent), but have no guts to change these ways or tell these people (who actually give a fuck to comfort you online) you are changing it.  Hell I'd like it to be 80% or 90% of you wackos that could come up with some awesome art or a good story or a rocking poem that (whoever band or singer you listen to) would sing to the world.

But the above rant isn't the point of this blog...

You think you have it sooooo rough don't you?

Somewhere in this world, a person, (pick your gender idc), is laying on the cold hard debris littered ground in pain.  They had lost their job a while ago and no family will take them in.  Their loved one thought they were a piece of shit since they couldn't get a job and weren't sympathetic to the job crisis if there is one.  This person hasn't eaten a goddamn thing in days and has to panhandle people for money for enough money to get a fucking apple.  Yeah they're in a city and they could walk to another place where the bitter winter weather and freezing rain doesn't pummel the life out of them, but their dirty secret has come out to rear it's ugly head: they have TB.  The job that person had never game them health insurance so it's been festering in their lungs for a long time now.
And as it coughs up more blood and phlegm, it realizes it's age: 26.  Financial circumstances with family have caused this person to go straight into the workforce (barely out of high school), and without a supporting parental guide, felt no need for college.  Finally, the diseased-ridden, hopeless sheeperson of society, draws their last breath and dies quietly...

WITH NO ONE TO GIVE A FLYING RAT'S ASS ABOUT IT!

Moral of the story kids:  think twice before you blow your menial drama out of proportion because someone out there is dealing with something ten times as bad and they are fighting it til the end.
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LoneTaku Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2012  Student Writer
No words other than 'the greatness of being understood somewhere'.

I'll admit that yes, I have posted a blog or two on here. However, I did not whine about my problems then go ahead saying I'm going to do something, then refuse another's help. I simply wanted to explain my situation to others and vent some, because I need to vent a lot.

Anyway, perfectly said!
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xKocicax Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
Agree... AGREE 1000000000000000% ~!

This is how I roll..... I'M NOT WEAK LIKE OTHERs :iconfinallyplz:
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
awesome rolling a million-million percent :D
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xKocicax Featured By Owner Dec 2, 2012  Hobbyist Photographer
ahahahah... yea yea :XD:
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xXHeartlessGirlXx Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Well, another good journal entry. Don't listen to these dummies, if they complain, it's because they know it's true and don't want to admit it. I always did hate these emo people, they're a stain to look at. All black and weird and just out of place. What started this? When I tried to share my pain with one of these ungrateful brats, all they did was attack me. I'm here for you all the way.
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
I agree though they do have that ability and privilege to complain, this is a forum so it's bound to have venting and complaining and whining...Haven't been attacked (harshly) yet, but I just got tired of reading posts of "i need help" and when I try to give them comfort, all they do is just ignore it
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xXHeartlessGirlXx Featured By Owner Nov 29, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Ah, I see your problem with these people. XD
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KennyNoms Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012
A little harshly put but you do have a point. However, you gotta wonder WHY these people post over and over in very much a 'crying wolf' manner. Even if they aren't actually doing what they say they're doing, they've gotta be lacking some way in their lives to seek so much attention through the internet.
I agree that it can be quite annoying, to see someone just take over the journal here and feed their need for attention (or whatever it is they don't have in their real lives) when others are in real desperate need for this group. I get disappointed by the insensitivity for others they have...

[The short version of this: WHY CAN'T EVERYONE JUST BE MADE OF RAINBOWS AND SUNSHINE? ;w; ]
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
If only people could be made of rainbows and sunshine...the world would be a better place for sure :D Hard to wade through the people who want ungodly amounts of attention to find the one person who really does need help and would be actually grateful and appreciative of it, even if it is a phrase of confidence that gets them through the day. You know like the poster of the kitten climbing a tree with the phrase, "hang in there" next to it.
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MeltingCORE-NEO Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student General Artist
While your post is a little overboard with anger, I do agree with it. I've tried putting up my own blog in imreallyNOTokay but it was a post to HELP people like me. I got one response. Yet I see certain users posting over and over again about how they're going to kill themselves when we all know they're not going to do it. *sigh*
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
It was definitely over the deep end, hence the disclaimer in the beginning (or lackthereof, yeah really weak disclaimer). To say that I won't go any easier is not true either. It's tough love :D I was exposed to it and it's really not for everybody. But for those who can't take it we have people like Rowlingson39, (pretty awesome cat I think, but very much under-appreciated), who tell you everything will be okay and that they are here to listen if you need to vent
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xdemonicxkittyx Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Ehh I agree with this just a bit. I mean some people here I see(not naming names or anything) post here a bit to offen over everything. Though some people do need to vent,it maybe stupid yes but it helps them feel better knowing some people read it. Though if you do get annoyed with it so much,you can remove yourself from this group. In less your here to vent and do stuff too,though venting to the internet where some people are lets say assholes who have nothing better to do than just "troll". But I can tell where you are coming from,some people I see kind of post here to offen,and about EVERYTHING.Then they expect everyone to deal with it,and when someone like says something negative they kind of bitch at the person without really thinking that they did post in a public place that they thought was private.
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
True, it's a forum, a media punching bag to rid one of their troubles for a little while :D But again I think there's a difference between "I need more attention than you can give me." and "I really need help." True, I could remove myself from the group, and I'd like to consider this as "angry trolling", since, really I could be venting about more important things like politics, economy, religion and of course the existence of The Great Pumpkin :D Which we all know is a real person :D
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xdemonicxkittyx Featured By Owner Nov 29, 2012  Hobbyist Writer
Ah I see
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
And hence the “let the hating commence” quote.

Allow me to backpeddle for a bit to explain the first paragraph even further:

I think it's good to have a source to vent to, whether it's about a bad day at work, a test failed, or just something shoved up your ass. People will read it and try to comfort you and everything will be good.

HERE's what I don't think is good (posting wise):
DAY ONE: OMG my life sucks my facebook friend (third person view 'who they probably never met in real life') dumped me I think I should cut myself
DAY TWO: OMG my life sucks the starbucks coffee they made me was lukewarm I think I should cut myself
DAY THREE: OMG my life sucks my dad (third person view, 'probably not a bad guy, just a strong disciplinarian.') yelled at me because I got a B+ I think I should cut myself.
DAY FOUR: OMG my life sucks I saw my loved one talking with someone else that wasn't me I think I should cut myself.

I could go on more based on what I have read and been through myself, though in really really REALLY tiny lettering of the person's posts are the replies:
“Don't do that you're so much better than that!” “You'll find a better facebook friend don't cut yourself!” “It'll be okay.” “You're dad's a douchebag you'll be okay.”
Note the lettering is so tiny and insignificant that they don't even pay attention to it to where it reads actually like this:

DAY ONE: OMG my life sucks my facebook friend (third person view 'who they probably never met in real life') dumped me I think I should cut myself

reply: “Don't do that you're so much better than that!”

reply: “You'll find a better facebook friend don't cut yourself!”

DAY TWO: OMG my life sucks the starbucks coffee they made me was lukewarm I think I should cut myself

reply: “It'll be okay.”

DAY THREE: OMG my life sucks my dad (third person view, 'probably not a bad guy, just a strong disciplinarian.') yelled at me because I got a B+ I think I should cut myself.

Reply: “It'll be okay.”

DAY FOUR: OMG my life sucks I saw my loved one talking with someone else that wasn't me I think I should cut myself.

Reply: “You're so much stronger than this, don't do it!”
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
I think I might put it up for a blog tomorrow...then do one every week
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
Just because someone else has it so much bloody worse (and yeah, billions of people do have it worse) doesn't mean that someone isn't suffering enough as it is.
Lay off. Sometimes people just need someone to listen, or sympathize. Some people are just waiting for someone to say the right thing.
So just stop. This hurts people alot more than it'll ever stop people from annoying you.
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TheReverendofDrugs Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Thank you.
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
ummm you're welcome
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TheReverendofDrugs Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I agree with you and I'm glad you disagree with this post. So I was thanking you for posting something much less offensive than I would have, but with the same message.
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
ah yeah
I don't want to be mean to anyone, just try to get a point across....
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Fall-Like-Angels Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I wish I could favorite this, because you're awesome, and you've really helped me. The hate you got for this is totally not needed
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
eh it's okay it wasn't really hate for it, it was a misunderstanding on both parts
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Fall-Like-Angels Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
I suppose you're right. Still...
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
yeah
It's ok
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TaoShaman Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student General Artist
I really agree with you.:iconhuggleplz: I never understood why people use this as an excuse to attack people. By that logic nobody could ever be sad or upset about anything because there's always that somebody that may or may not even exist.
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
yeah...
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Temujinsword Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
If you can say as you please on the internet, then surely other people can too? Even if what they are saying is depressing. You don't want to have to read their depressed rants/pleas for help, then as you have so kindly pointed out, don't post in a public place.

~Temujin :D
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Temujinsword Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Thats fair enough, I can't make you do anything you don't want to do! :shrug: I do agree with a lot of what you are saying ... just a shame it's done with such agression and anger.

Peace, :peace:
Temujin
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
Yeah and you rant against people who are actually hurting, and this is why we've got such a high suicide rate. -_-
I know this is the internet, but seriously, there is a certain amount of human respect for everything.
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
I don't hate anyone for anything (besides myself for reasons) but i don't like people complaining about people who are asking for help.
There's too much hurt in the world already, even without the people who don't care and the people who hate.
So yeah, I'm sorry, but I'm always gonna defend the people asking for help.
Because I'm here for all of them. And some don't come for help directly, some need journals like this.

(That includes you, ever need to talk about anything, let me know.)
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Rowlingson39 Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012   General Artist
Not all of them. Alot of people just need someone to listen
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Engelsblau Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012
FINALLY! :iconfreeinternetplz:
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MinZki Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
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I'm agreeing with you here. Everyone have their bad days, but that doesn't mean that you should go and tell about it to everyone on the internet.
I mean, it's okay to tell a story of your life, like releasing it to somewhere, but then again, posting a stuff about killing yourself every freaking day, or that you're going to cut.... Not good, dude. Everyone has their bad days, but there's people who have it worse than you. Of course, it might feel horrible on that moment but you are going to get trough it eventually.
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
Cute raccoon applause! And as I said to theaftermathis2ndary, the point of the exercise is to make people feel less crappy about their lives, maybe sit back, calm down and take things rationally and one day at a time
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MinZki Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Yes, that's a good point
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
My ways aren't exactly the best ways to put it out there...I'd like to find someone who would put it perfectly though :D
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MinZki Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Yeah, same here
can't really put everything I want to say perfectly, mostly because this isn't my native language
but oh well, as long as people understand the message, it's fine.
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Lexie-Chan-Xx Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
This is so true- there are many people I know who would benefit from reading this. Sadly I'm too scared to show them it >.<
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
It's ok, they might stumble upon it or not, I am thinking of putting one up every week. :D
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Lexie-Chan-Xx Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
Good idea :D ^^
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DubhEitilt Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Hobbyist Artist
ty ;)
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Lexie-Chan-Xx Featured By Owner Nov 28, 2012  Student Traditional Artist
:D
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